When picking up women, the most important part of the pick-up is conversation. However, did you know that 90% of all conversation is conducted by body language? It’s true; the way we hold and present our bodies can give more messages then a regular chit-chat. People can subconsciously pick up if you are depressed, angry, happy, tired, alert, or any other emotion you can think of. So what does this mean for you? It means you are about to change the game with my top 5 body language tips!
1. Posture- Not many folks know this, but your spine doesn’t actually end at your back, it ends at your skull. So from now on, walk with a straight posture with your head tilted up a little, and your shoulders held back. This says wonders about your confidence, and that is a huge turn-on for women.
2. Open- Never cross your legs or your arms. Crossing of the limbs means you are a closed person, and that’s what people will subconsciously pick up if they see you as such.
3. Take up space- Always spread out. If you’re lounging on a couch, take up as much room as possible. If you’re at a bar, don’t be afraid to kick your leg up on a chairs peg next to you.
4. Eye Contact- This is one of the most important tricks that anyone can use. Always look people in the eyes. This says that you are a confident person, and you’re not afraid of interaction.
5. Slow Down- Don’t jerk! Always make your movements slow, calculated, and smooth, never be in a hurry.
When attracting women, body language can make or break you. If you use these 5 quick-tips next time your out, I guarantee you will see an almost instant in the amount of women you can successfully attract. Remember, the number one-thing to do is to just have fun. If you get too caught up in the things you read, it becomes more of a job then something you enjoy.